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Conflict Statements: How to stop student resistance
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Conflict Statements: How to stop student resistance

Season 1 Episode 1: In which an overwhelmed teacher comes up with an illuminating -- and simple -- repair

Summer, a physics teacher known for her big heart, hits a wall. One of her students, Clarisse, is just not cooperating, and Summer’s instinctual approach isn’t working. In this episode, we unpack how Summer, with her Teacher Support Group, came up with an entirely new approach to dissolving a classic power struggle with a resistant student.

Listen now on **Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or **wherever you get your podcasts.

We discuss:

  • The Power of Neutrality: How “conflict statements” can dissolve student resistance

  • Perspective Shifting: A super-helpful psychodynamic trick called “making the flip”

  • Boundaries: Defining where your Garden (your internal peace and professional responsibilities) ends and the student’s Garden (their choices and emotions) begins

  • Teaching as Research: Observing a blow-up as data collection. What triggered the student? What triggered you?

External Links

Martha Stark on resistance

Conflict Statements

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Credits

Founder and Host: Betsy Burris

Producer: Jullian Androkae of PodVision

Music: Thom Burris/Jabbering Trout

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