Today we’re in Leona’s classroom. She’s a science teacher with an unpredictable student. He has outbursts and she’s had it. Together, we unpack how she can repair their connection by reading his defiant reactions — and threat of violence — as a need for attachment.
Listen now on **Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or **wherever you get your podcasts.
We discuss:
The Academic Trap: Why focusing just on content during a behavioral crisis can actually escalate student anxiety and lead to teacher burnout
Misinterpreted Cues: Differentiating between defiance and anxiety-driven outbursts
The Developmental Perspective: How looking at a student as their emotional age changes how we respond to conflict
Hostility: Understanding that anger might be a call for connection, not a personal attack
Repairing Connections: Practical steps for establishing a safe, productive relationship after a classroom blow-up
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Credits
Founder and Host: Betsy Burris
Producer: Jullian Androkae of PodVision
Music: Thom Burris/Jabbering Trout
