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Stop Taking it Personally: Detaching from Classroom Conflict
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Stop Taking it Personally: Detaching from Classroom Conflict

Season 3 Episode 6: In which Joe and I talk with an actual teacher about a hurtful incident

This episode is really fun because the teacher whose story we wrestle with, Donna, is actually in the virtual studio with us! What you get to hear is a simulation of a (very small) Teacher Support Group where Joe and I ask the types of questions we would ask in a real TSG and work with the data Donna’s answers provide. Listening will bring you into the world of TSGs, where teachers and I get to unpack difficult experiences with curiosity, compassion, and perspective-changing psychodynamic insights! Wahoo!!!

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We discuss:

  • The Anatomy of Sarcasm: What is a student actually saying when they use sarcasm? (You won’t want to miss Joe’s analogy)

  • Transference in the Classroom: How students use teachers as proxies for their parents and why their anger might not actually be about you.

  • Healthy Detachment: Why detaching from hurtful experiences doesn’t mean you “don’t care”.

  • The “Bulletproof” Teacher: Should teachers be expected to have thick skin?

  • The Urge for Revenge: The human desire to “get back” at a difficult student and how to redirect that energy.

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Credits

Founder and Host: Betsy Burris

Co-Host: Joe Johnson

Producer: Jullian Androkae of PodVision

Audience Development: Andreea Coscai of PodVision

Music: Tom Burris/Jabbering Trout

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